Author Archives: dodyd

Why we feel DISAPPOINTED in relationships

Why is it that we feel used in relationships? Why do we so often feel that we give so much, but our partner doesn’t? There is one specific thing we do to create a happy relationship that is actually ruining it. We don’t realize it, because we’ve always been told that’s what love is. But…

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Needs, Relationships and a “Broken Bucket” syndrome

We have needs. And unless we fulfill them, we won’t feel happy and satisfied in life. It’s only normal that our intimate relationships are our main source for meeting those needs. We want our partner to make us feel loved, important and cared. We expect them to do it. Most teachers say you can’t expect…

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The way we JUDGE the other gender

  There is something I LOOOOVE about this community. I no longer hear people blindly projecting on others. I no longer hear anyone using generalizations. The last man who told me “all women complain” got so triggered when I challenged this belief, he unfollowed my page. And it’s good, because I love interacting with people who…

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A Tantric View On Why Women Prefer BAD BOYS

On one hand, women want their men to be more in touch with their emotions and show compassion, and yet they would still prefer a bad boy. Why is it? Where does this desire come from? You’ve probably heard some good answers to this question, but Tantra offers a different view. Let’s look at the…

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Manipulation & Abuse In A Relationship

“Ultimately, we all want to be loved. Some of us have simply a really bad way of asking for it” – Sonia Choquette Scroll down for the video! We don’t know what love is. We confuse it with romantic love, falling in love and romance. So we enter a relationship desperate for love, believing that…

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A Call To All Man: Please Understand A Woman’s Sexuality Is Her Most Vulnerable State

  It’s so different than yours. You give, she is the one who receives it. She takes you into her body. So if she asks you to slow down, or not to go all the way – honor that. That voice is coming from deep inside her. It is not the voice of rejection, of…

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BOUNDARIES: Is your “yes” and “no” honest?

We have to talk about boundaries, because too often they are broken, or not even set in the first place. But like with almost anything, we are becoming very radical in this area. It’s not ok to do anything unless you first ask and get a verbal permission. But is it really the right way?…

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Stop cutting cords. Create them.

What cords have to do with being grounded and dealing with heartbreak. A few years ago when I was dealing with a really bad break up, I first heard of “cord cutting”. I learnt that we create these cords and become dependent on our lover and that as a part of our spiritual growth we…

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Rules Of Seduction

I used to be very shy around men. I didn’t know how to flirt. Whenever I went out, I would end up feeling somewhat awkward and left behind (especially that my best friend was the queen of seduction). So I took it as a challenge to learn how to flirt. I figured it can’t be…

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How Your Root Chakra Impacts Your Sexuality

Your Root Chakra (Muladhara Chakra in Sanskrit) is your very connection to Mother Earth. It is the gateway for the nurturing and revitalising energy to enter your body. It is linked to feeling grounded, supported and secure, which in our modern times means financial security, physical space, and career. What is rarely known, however, is the…

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