Author Archives: dodyd

Women, own your “YES”. Men, stop challenging our “NO”

Women have not been empowered to express their desires, especially in their sexuality. Women do not own their “yes”, so their “no” has no strength. And men don’t respect it. We need to communicate better, this is the only way to get our needs met without causing abuse. Both men and women use “NO” as…

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Tantric Breath Practice for Deeper Love (for Couples)

We’ve been told to breathe with the nose. In fact, keeping your mouth open is rude!But truth is when you breath with an open mouth you get more oxygen and more energy into the body. And while it may not be the best breathing for meditation, it’s perfect if you want to feel more in…

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Have You Become A ‘Too-Conscious’ Couple?

  Most of the relationships serve the ego’s needs. People expect them to provide them safety, love and anything else they don’t know how to give themselves. Truth is, most relationships are totally unconscious and full of projections. So this whole movement of conscious relating is amazing, and very much needed. We need to develop…

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Why we feel DISAPPOINTED in relationships

Why is it that we feel used in relationships? Why do we so often feel that we give so much, but our partner doesn’t? There is one specific thing we do to create a happy relationship that is actually ruining it. We don’t realize it, because we’ve always been told that’s what love is. But…

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Needs, Relationships and a “Broken Bucket” syndrome

We have needs. And unless we fulfill them, we won’t feel happy and satisfied in life. It’s only normal that our intimate relationships are our main source for meeting those needs. We want our partner to make us feel loved, important and cared. We expect them to do it. Most teachers say you can’t expect…

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The way we JUDGE the other gender

  There is something I LOOOOVE about this community. I no longer hear people blindly projecting on others. I no longer hear anyone using generalizations. The last man who told me “all women complain” got so triggered when I challenged this belief, he unfollowed my page. And it’s good, because I love interacting with people who…

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A Tantric View On Why Women Prefer BAD BOYS

On one hand, women want their men to be more in touch with their emotions and show compassion, and yet they would still prefer a bad boy. Why is it? Where does this desire come from? You’ve probably heard some good answers to this question, but Tantra offers a different view. Let’s look at the…

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Manipulation & Abuse In A Relationship

“Ultimately, we all want to be loved. Some of us have simply a really bad way of asking for it” – Sonia Choquette Scroll down for the video! We don’t know what love is. We confuse it with romantic love, falling in love and romance. So we enter a relationship desperate for love, believing that…

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A Call To All Man: Please Understand A Woman’s Sexuality Is Her Most Vulnerable State

  It’s so different than yours. You give, she is the one who receives it. She takes you into her body. So if she asks you to slow down, or not to go all the way – honor that. That voice is coming from deep inside her. It is not the voice of rejection, of…

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BOUNDARIES: Is your “yes” and “no” honest?

We have to talk about boundaries, because too often they are broken, or not even set in the first place. But like with almost anything, we are becoming very radical in this area. It’s not ok to do anything unless you first ask and get a verbal permission. But is it really the right way?…

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